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Friendship is both a life support and a support for life.

John’s Message …….

FRIENDSHIP is both a life support and a support for life.

To find a friend to share with, care with, learn with, love with and even live with – is a blessing indeed.

And if such a friend encourages us – and inspires us to Realise Reality and live from Dhamma – Truth – such a friendship is very precious.

 

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